On Top of Everything Else, Moms Need to Be “Hot” Too
Posted in Fitness Trends, Wellness on May 10th, 2009 by adminMoms have to be so many things to so many people. As if it’s not hard enough to balance family and career, there are always new expectations thrown at mothers to be asked to achieve. The latest mommy book getting quite a buzz is called The Hot Mommy Next Door: A Quick, Easy, and Effective Way to Drop Your Baby Weight and Achieve Your Personal Best After Pregnancy by Allison Fadoul.
Now it’s not enough being nurse, short order cook, chauffeur, homework helper, activity director, and bedtime story reader. Let alone being a friend, lover, and confidant to your significant other who may or may not be your baby’s daddy. Throw in everything you do at work and you are lucky if you can watch “Dancing With The Stars” without seeing stars yourself. Moms can’t even find two minutes to themselves a day that do not revolve around the needs of others.
It’s no surprise then, that when it comes to diet and exercise, the number one reason moms give for failing to commit is that they just don’t have the time. Now all of a sudden this book comes along and tells us moms that we now need to be “hot” too. The only hot most women my age are feeling comes in the form of hot flashes. Maybe this book is about living next door to a hot mommy instead of requiring us to be a hot mommy ourselves.
The truth is no matter how chaotic life is and how drained and exhausted you feel at the end of the day, you are only as good to others as you are to yourself. Instead of being always last on the list in the family pecking order, give yourself the best Mother’s Day gift ever and put yourself at the front of the line. It is no different than putting the oxygen mask on you first during an emergency airplane landing before placing the oxygen mask on your child. Your family and success in your career are dependent on your overall health and wellness.
I don’t think being “hot” means donning thigh high stiletto boots and a bustierre. I can barely spell bustierre, let alone wear one. Justin Timberlake said that President Obama brought swagger back into The White House. To me, being a “hot” mom means bringing your swagger back into your life. It’s bringing back your essence, your joy, and your sense of self. It’s about not settling for eating the cut off crusts of your kid’s sandwiches and knowing you’re worthy of every bite of a whole one.
Eating well, exercising, prioritizing, and owning and being proud of the “you” you are now is the new presecription for moms. To be able to walk with confidence and feel beautiful inside and out will make your neighbors take note that they are living next door to a true “hot” mommy.
